saying how he doesnt feel any hurt after our breakup
Well, I took it as a breakup, despite the lack of "official" conversation about it.
Look, I didn't mean to be harsh. But calling someone at 1 a.m., who is behaving as if the relationship is over, strikes me as highly unreasonable. If it were done to me, I would consider it harassing behavior.
I can tell you are very hurt, and for that I am very sorry. You said in your first post that the relationship "clearly needs to be over." It sounds like it is, from his perspective. Sometimes that feels hard to accept, but you are only prolonging your own pain.
I apologize if I made you feel bad, that wasn't my intent.