Funny story:
The first time I read "Codependent No More," all I could see was my AH. I remember thinking OMG! I'm not just dealing with an A, he's codependent, too!
Second time I read it, I saw not only my H, but my mom, sister, boss, and several coworkers. Wow, so many messed up people around me, no wonder my life is a mess!
Only on the third time did I see myself in those pages. And, only then, did I begin the journey to lasting change in my life.
L