Melody Beattie says that nothing will drive us crazier than expecting something from someone who has nothing to give.
When my "expectations" are about someone else filling my need, then I am bound to be disappointed and resentful. Just because I "need" something from someone, doesn't mean they will feel the need to give.
When the clouds turn grey and fill the ski, I can "expect" rain...but won't be disappointed if it doesn't happen. When my soul turns grey and fills with clouds, I better look after myself.
Hugs
Ann