Good for you!!!
As for the eBaying the rings -- see, I go straight for the important parts
-- I was advised to take them to a reputable jeweler for appraisal, and then see if they do consignment. Even so, I was told you can only count on getting 20-30% of the retail value. Which sucks, but then again, I'll probably take them for appraisal and find out that the diamond is really Cubic Zirconia...
I gave my wedding dress to Salvation Army. Felt great.
Onwards & upwards, girl.