No matter how clear you were, heck even if you had it written in the sky with smoke right above his house, he'd probably STILL wonder "Why oh WHY is she divorcing a catch like ME??!!"
Yup. Next, wait for the "you were always a lousy wife, but I'm such a generous guy that I'm going to give you a second chance to come back and do it right this time."
And you know what Willie Nelson said? You know why divorces are so expensive?
Because they're worth it.