"Don't quit 5 minutes before the miracle".
I started hearing this about 20 years or so ago in AA. I believe it came from some rehab but not sure. It was being used by sponsors to sponsee to 'not quit AA and go back to drinking 5 minutes before the miracle happens.'
As to HIS therapist telling you that and emailing you, sheesh totally not ethical in my book.
If in fact your RAH is just dry and NOT working a program of recovery and in the process is still the same in your book and still giving you all the problems, then it is entirely up to you what YOU choose to do.
You have choices today.
Why not do what is BEST for YOU?
J M H O
Love and hugs,