I feel like I was never anyone and I am just discovering who I am at the age of 25. I've always seem to turn to men to make me happy...Or other people. I've spent my life pleasing others and never looking at myself and who I am or want to be. I notice myself slipping when I was having this flirty relationship with the cop...of all people.. thats a whole other post, haha. I'm really struggling with keeping the focus on myself and the kids!!