I guess I must have missed the point here, too. For me, I was relating how society's stereotypes and my own families role-modeling effected me on a personal level, which I wasn't even entirely aware of pre-recovery.
I didn't think it was about who does what around the house or out in the workplace at all. I guess we all have different takes on this topic.
Edit to add: I agree with BG we should teach our daughters to value themselves. And that starts with role-modeling to them how WE value OURSELVES.
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