Originally Posted by
barb dwyer 
there's no rule that says
anyone has to go through that first year
joined at the hip with anyone else.
Its as if you have danced tango all this time and now you want to dance salsa... but you are still onstage dancing tango... maybe you CAN learn salsa...but the easiest thing would be to
1 stop dancing tango,
2 go buy salsa CDs and salsa attire
3 go to a salsa teacher, learn some steps
4 see if the other person knows the new salsa steps
5 if he doesn't, get a partner that knows them.
6 or go back to the old tango
BTW I just bought a new salsa CD and I am a happy woman while driving
