Aw, dang it. I just had a long thingie typed out and lost it.
We've got a treatment team (thank God for good insurance right now) in place that thinks we're on the right track even with his lapse this weekend. There are a lot of mitigating details that I just can't fit in here right now, but I'm still interested in hearing what people think is reasonable to do for/with/to/nearby the addict while they're fumbling through recovery.