I'll tell you what I think. I think this guy is useless as **** on a bull and always will be. It's like having a giant baby who isn't cute and innocent but still makes a lot of s*** for you to clean up.
That happy family you envisioned with this guy? That ain't happening. Please focus on keeping yourself healthy for this baby, you'll be a great mom and if you take the energy you expend worrying about this guy and use it for building a future without him, you'll all be better off.
/the world is full of men who don't have his problems
//you're not Florence Nightingale or God, you don't have to fix God's mistakes.
///sorry to sound so blunt, but admit it you've thought this already