Old 05-09-2011, 11:04 AM
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BobbyJ
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I have had 3 years of un-answered questions regarding
my daughter & husband.

Since he has been gone the last few months, my daughter & I are just now
beginning to talk.

Just now trying to figure out why she cut all of us out of her life.

So as painful as it is, we have to talk about these things.

It is part of her recovery, and I guess part of mine.

I dont want to hear them. But I feel like I needed to know
if he did anything to her physically and not just mentally.

The big (bar) deal happen to her, when she was 17.

3 Years later, she is beginning to open up...

I asked her, why didnt you tell me this before?
She said, she didnt want to cause a fight or be the cause
of your divorce. She said she wanted to, but was afraid.

Mental or sexual abuse, I "NEVER" thought my AH would
ever make my daughter feel that way... I dont have one
thought of my dad, ever making me feel scared sexually...

Im in alanon, and not one person in my f2f class can relate to this story.

I realize they lie. cheat steal....But is this beyond lying? To me its like
a 3rd personality...
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