Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
They are energy vampires - people who struggle making basic decisions and seem to float through life. They rarely set goals nor achieve what they do set.
You are describing my mom.
On to this day when she is 60 she is still asking me for help to get an apartment. As if she couldn't call the real estate office herself.
And many other things she could do herself... but why do them if others can keep solving her life?
Very very sad and frustrating, this codependency...