I have not read through all the thread, but I realized I got some "relationships" that oppress me...... one with the most recent ex who keeps calling and calling and calling... and another one with someone super codependent that I met last Xmas and he fell in love with me without knowing me (SOUNDS FAMILIAR!) and now I can't even "like" something in Facebook because he is right there sending me messages and DEMANDING to know why I dared to login and don't contact him and tell him all about my life.
So I was writing that above and EX called and I ignored him. And I blocked that Facebook friend.
Now I realize how I tend to attract supercodependent people and how UNHEALTHY that behavior is..... gladly I took steps for my peace today.... sheesh.
Will need to come back to read all the thread..thanks for letting me share...