We're just like them, in the sense that, we have to want it bad enough. If we want it bad enough, we'll work on our recovery and keep working on it.
Originally Posted by
sweetteewalls 
I agree completely. I think the HP is what my RAH struggled with in AA and until he works his steps and accepts the program, he will continue this irrational behavior. Addiction is powerful, enough to tear my family apart. I just pray I have the follow thru to continue with my own steps in Alanon. Its easy to get swept into old patterns.