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Old 05-07-2011, 08:44 PM
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sandrawg
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My exabf also jumped from me to another woman, who is his enabler. She drinks a lot, just as much if not MORE than he does, and smokes pot all the time.

She's really a loser.

He's kept her around as a backup our whole relationship-long story. Anyway, I am the same way-I would NEVER take him back. Even if he got sober and went into AA, I do not think I could trust him. He's pretended to want to change too many times.


Originally Posted by sweetteewalls View Post
Thank you for the mothers day wishes! =)

I notice I keep wondering what he's doing, if he's drinking, if he's with her or if he even misses me. Then, I just realize even if he was crying begging me back, I wouldn't believe a word he has to say. So like everyone has advised me, distance is best. I guess there are consequences to his actions after all, he has lost his wife and family...

Forward movement...I deserve someone who will know my worth and not let me go.
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