I completely agree with ANEWAUGUST. YOU are not getting hm in trouble. You are not jeopardizing his job. YOU are not giving him a possible criminal record. HE IS! If you had been mugged on the street by a complete stranger would you have these guilty feelings?
This sounds to me like misplaced guilt. He chose to hurt you, the police were involved, it's time to pay the piper. YOU have NOTHING to feel the least bit guilty about. The same thing would be happening if the "victim" were a neighbor or friend or some random person.
