Originally Posted by
SarahBear 
I saw him recently and caught him stealing my money.
Most folk call the police when they encounter a thief.
Luckily, it wasn't that much.
We codependents have a tendency to rationalize it's not so bad.
He also drives recklessly when I'm with him. I don't even know if he has a license. Those are the 2 big reasons why I want to end contact.
How about a third reason...you are worth more than this.
I also know if I stop enabling him, he won't talk to me anymore.
So...
I don't know if its best to tell him in person or just ignore his calls/texts. I know if I tell him in person, he'll think I'm joking or whatever
Originally Posted by
SarahBear He also showers me with affection when I see him
Seems to be a connection between the last 2 statements. The affection is the payoff ? He's an addict doing what addicts do. He is not capaple of anything beyond drug seeking. If you want affection, buy a dog or cat. They are not going t steal from you or put you in harms way.