Thank you guys. You both are right and I just need to get stronger. It got worse before it got better. He basically called my daughter back and he spoke to her and told her after that he needed to speak to me. He told me that he hates me so much and doesn't want to deal with me that he will go to court and get his daughter He then proceeded to throw every insecurity I have in my face. He said that he only wants to hear from me if our daughter is half dead but not to contact him otherwise. I said fine, so be it. I literally just blocked him from my e-mail and called my phone company and blocked him from my texting me and he obviously needs my number because we share a daughter but the main fights start via text so I eliminated that. He is so angry right now and seeing red and really, I just have to feel grateful that I can determine the tempo of the rest of my day and it will be a good day. =)