Originally Posted by
pixilation 
I can understand that, and you do have the retainer back, so that's saying something.
The socially conscious part of me is saying that I have no right to be disturbed by his behavior if I am unwilling to do something about it. If everyone turned their back and said 'well I'm done with X so it does't impact me anymore' the world would be run by whomever is the most evil, manipulative, forceful etc...
So, I feel like I have a civic duty of sorts to do something about letting others know that he's really a creep and something is very wrong-- but selfishly wish someone else would do it for me!
I have 2 yrs of a window to file something so I don't need to do anything right now I guess...
The right thing to do though would be to address the issue with the Bar and deal with whatever reaction that brings.