Do you think the extraneous things he had to bring over were just a way to interact?
I don't know - maybe. But that seems so immature - ok I forget what I am dealing with on occasion - but wouldn't it be easier to call and say "hey..want to get together?"
Do you think that the tension from the date that went well Sat is bc he might have hoped it would be enough for you to return to the status quo with him?
I don't know...i bought my own house...i am revising our status quo from this point forward. Maybe that's the underlying issue. Maybe I forget the anger too easily when he's being nice and we are getting along.
Good questions, thanks!
And after writing this out and rereading it - I felt HAPPY that I don't have to live with him anymore!