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Noday - that's HILARIOUS! Thanks...I needed the laugh this morning!
BobbyJ, put yourself first and do what you feel is right for you. Think about it...talking with him upsets you so much. Does that feel right? Try not talking to him for a week and see how you feel. Are you upset at the end? Guilty? Relieved? Peaceful?
I like what wanttobehealthy says - the mixed messages are the hardest. I can't stand it when I get those. That's the crazy making stuff...