What lillamy said.
And, he may never get it. NEVER. Do you want to wait around that long?
Or he may someday and you two get back together. That also happens.
But today, he is in such serious denial that there is no hope. What choice do you have? Well...you have lots...but what do you want your life to look like, based on what it is right now?
You are doing better than you think...hang in there, BobbyJ!