Cyranoak, I'm so sorry. I ALWAYS read your posts, as you are so straight-forward and I learn so much from you. I've always thought that if I ever get to the point in my recovery where you are, I hope I can be just like you!
My prayer is that your wife is able to pull herself back up, brush herself off, and start again strong...for it is truly one day at a time. She did it before, and with your love and strength behind her, may she do it again.
And I have a feeling your daughter will hold up fine; for she has been witnessing your role-modeling as you have traveled this path together.