Honey, this is A LOT to deal with in a short amount of time. Give yourself a break if you are overwhelmed.
I am completely and totally overwhelmed and i do need a break.
I would guess although he said it is over, he is testing and you could still be together, if you wanted.
You get to figure out what you want.
I hear you saying you have issues with his behavior.
Are those issues deal breakers?
i agree with that first sentence. and i don't know yet if these are deal breakers. i'm extremely conflict. I want to stop hurting. but he is a great person besides these things. and on top of that based on my religion i don't believe in giving up on people or getting divourced. but i'm afraid in my heart i maybe have already given up.
I'm thinking he needs to stay at his moms (even tho she will baby and pamper him and it probably will just make him feel more right about everything.), i think we should stop talking, and he should watch the kids some on the weekends, because he is doing MUCH better with them. this is my plan for now.
I do need a break. i don't know if it will be temporary or permanent, but i definitly need a break.