I am 25. However the XABF was 34. Mine as well dated a 14 year old because I had so much responsibility. I can say dating him really aged me emotionally. I had to take on certain tasks that a young person just should be made privy to yet until they are married with children. But yeah, guys are guys everywhere and Alcoholics are the same. My town there is just nothing else to do but drink so its hard to get away from the constant drunkeness.