i did actually mention that he is seeing a thearapist. he also has an appt with a pyschiatrist. I do 100% believe he is working towards bettering himself. he was miserable and he wants to change his life. of course he could easily go right back to it but he's trying. and he may have messed up already and hidden it from me... but i would know if he was drinking everyday etc. like before..and like i said i know he's trying if nothing else.
its just frustrating me i suppose that while he's trying to get better he is unable to help me get better too...since he is the one i've always counted on to be there...before like 7 months ago. so this post was meant to be more about my relationship problems that can't be resolved yet and how sucky it is to not have him "be there" for me....i didn't want to discuss his drinking/womanizing or lack there of.
at this point nothing can suprise or "blindside" me anyways.