The bad news is, your daughter is vomiting this on you..the good news is she feels comfortable enough now to vomit all over you..I'm sure it will be rough, but what I see is everything headed in a healing direction...you seem able to take it, and she seems willing to work on it.no matter who we are we do damage our kids.We also give them lots of good things as well.Awareness, Acceptance,Action..when we know better, we do better..this is all a process