Well, that damn thing that happens when we do "work" on ourselves happened. I have realized that I have really no other option left in my relationship but to give myself some space. Space for me, space for ABF. He's not expecting it... its gonna hurt. it's been hurting me all day
I went to AA this morning to meet up with my sponsor but she wasn't there. So then I went to Alanon... nothing really helped... just kinda confirmed that I know what i have to do. But, I still know that I love him, and the faster I get out of his way, maybe he will hit his bottom. If not, my staying will only prolong the inevitable anyways. I'm in so much pain, this really sucks.
Please say some prayers for both of us.