Originally Posted by
Shellcrusher 
... I know what I said to her but I don't like the timing. It's not working the way I want it to. I wanted to keep things tight, work my plan, get my act together and wait for the right moments.
Shell, I'm sorry to hear about your night. This ^ struck me because I have recently had a bit of a shock to my "plan". Apparently I'm going to be a father. 45 years old, never married, and out of the clear blue...
Plans imply control. They give us comfort, and a sense of order in our lives. Sometimes the universe gives us a little nudge to remind us otherwise. There is no right moment, there is only right now.