Originally Posted by
Shellcrusher 
Currently, I'm the only one who can get my son to go to bed and he also wakes up every night. Last night he was up at 11pm. Wife never heard him crying.
Ditto. I used to wonder- evidence here of how oblivious, stupid or in denial I was- when both girls were babies how it was AH NEVER heard them throughout the night. I mean, it wasn't fake sleeping on his part waiting for me to get up. It was OUT COLD asleep. Usually on the couch. I truly believed he was a "heavy sleeper". Unreal.
So, no wonder when they wake nowadays they only want me. I can count on one hand I think how often he got up to soothe them as babies. At the time I had moments of envy that he was not sleep deprived but in the end I feel sad for him and more so for the girls that they didn't get that bonding time with him that I did (bonding with them-- not him!).
Your son is lucky to have you Shell! Really lucky.