Originally Posted by
BobbyJ 
IS it okay, if I dont except this CRAP anymore?????????????????
Bobby, he's trying to make this out to be right and wrong. Resist the urge to take up that particular song and dance.
His drinking is unacceptable. No right or wrong attached to it - it's simply unacceptable for you to be married to him under those circumstances. He chooses to drink, and you choose to divorce. End of story.
That's not to say there is no emotion attached to it, of course there is. But clearly he's throwing (and will likely continue to) everything at this in hopes something sticks because he can't or won't accept that for you his drinking is unacceptable. There are none so blind as those who won't see.
You are in control of your destiny, and he of his. Leave it at that.