Originally Posted by
Rayn3dr0p 
I was no perfect angel in our relationship, but he still chooses me and probably always will. Of course, there is one glaring difference between your story and mine: without any true recovery on his part, I'm not interested in continuing to see the worst of him.
Yup, that's it for me too. I honestly feel and agree with EVERYTHING Cyranoak said in the original post. I love and respect my husband but I have reached my bottom on tolerating his drinking/behavior. I'm moving forward with the divorce as that is what's best for me.
Should he reach his bottom and choose recovery... I'd be fulling in support of it, and maybe someday would even be willing to consider reconciliation...
but that all depends on him choosing recovery.
Cyranoak... I have the utmost respect for you and the situation you're in. I look forward to seeing posts from you. Thanks for being here.