Wanttobehealthy, I just saw this post after posting my own about how you were treated in your other thread... wow. All I can say is that I'm so sorry.
I'm going through major crap right now with my AH and if I had anyone like those people respond to me the way you were responded to, it would really upset me and make me leave this forum.
I'm sooo glad you didn't though and I'm really happy you posted your feelings and BOUNDARIES on the subject.
I pray that you find peace and love in your life soon. You deserve it. (We all do!).
Hugs