I thought he was in recovery? If so then how is it enabling. I dunno, I don't like to kick someone when they are down. But it would be a pain to have to shuttle his butt around town and get old very fast.
Sometimes we overthink this stuff. Who cares what you call it, you don't want to drive his butt around! Tell him that. If he didn't have a drinking issue/recovery then you wouldn't be debating this, you'd tell him.
Less is sometimes more.
Ohmmmm.