Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
Is there really anyone here who sees their spouse destroying their professional reputation and doesn't feel a twinge of sorrow for what that person is doing to themself?
Yes.
I realized that it was pretty self-righteous of me to determine that he was living his life "wrong." Who am I to say what is right or wrong for someone else? It's not my place to judge others or to feel pity for them based on them not living up to my standards of conduct.
My place is to determine who I want in my life based on my principles and values. Not to determine how someone else should conduct their life. We each have our own path.
L