Originally Posted by
LaFemme The truth is I would like to meet someone now and get on with my life. I spend too much time on SR because I don't get enough social time in real life. The problem is I don't know how to go about meeting someone, truth is I wasn't so hot at it when I drank either.
I know about online sites but I haven't had any luck with them. I work 2 jobs that are both pretty solitary, and I live in a town where most people are married with kids. All my friends are married with kids and although I have asked, no one knows anyone single to introduce me to.
So, what to do?
This may sound strange, but do you go to the gym? In my experience, most men will use any excuse to strike up a conversation, and there are a lot of lonely people at the gym. IE, people trying to get in shape in order to go "back out" to dating.
I saw what I think is your picture on your web site, and I say go to the gym every day and someone will bite.
Just don't be like one of those annoying more-talk-than-exercise types who would interrupt my routine. :-)
Word of caution about "nerds" who get in shape, though - they usually still need a little encouragement, but it doesn't take much.