Hi everyone, im stuck on boundaries now. I am thinking about not picking my boyfriend up from the train anymore (no license because of DUI). I don't think I can go so far as to not drive him anywhere anymore, yet. But this would be a start. I pick him up from the train 2 nights a week. One night is an alanon meeting that I really like to attend but have to leave early to pick him up in time- so he can wait, or find another ride- likely his MOM
Or a taxi. That one would be for me. But the second night, I don't have a "reason" thats for me, and I don't want to make something up. I suppose I don't need a reason... There have been times in the past when I haven't picked him up because I was busy doing something for me... but I am scared to do this every time. It would be a HUGE HUGE change, and I'm scared! please, help, support, guidance, anything you have to offer me! Thank you!