I have a book on it. Each person writes a letter. The person who has the most influence with the A goes last. There are 3 parts. Each person reads 1. how drinking has effected the A, then part 2. how it has effected them, and 3. the consequences if they continue. There is no insurance or money for treatment in our situation so the bottom line is- you go to AA ! There is a pre-meeting with everyone. I have a book written by a lady from the Intervention show on tv, Candy Finnigan. google how to do an intervention.....