you are DIVORCING HIM, right? why waste your energy? I wouldn't trust him as far as I couldpick him up and throw him...he has zero respect for you....
you do not HAVE to talk to him, you do not have to let him in your house, he saw his kids, he went to therapy....just tell him to LEAVE and close the door...WHO CARES what he spouts???
Karma will come, just don't keep letting him set you up...it only serves to get you worked up into a froth..and you want peace....don't you?
you are expending a lot of energy on him that you could use for your own well being.