I wish I could remember everyones details, but its so tough.
Im sorry, I do not remember how long he has been at recovery.
Yes, it is hard to keep resentment at bay when you are still shouldering the financial burden.
I put my foot down about that one, and RAH did get up and start working again.
Its hard to say whether he wants to stay because it is easy for him to be there, or because he wants the marriage to work out.
I have no great advice, right now, just solidarity in your frustration.