Not sure if I posted this...
My husband once said in a therapy session.
"You are the reason I drink. I drink in order to stay with you."
OUCH!
I responded with-"You drank before you met me, you drank all through our marriage, I'm pretty sure you will continue drinking after I move out."
Which he has. I so want to ask him now "What is your excuse for drinking now?"
I really would like to hear what his response to that would be.
I also have this overwhelming desire to point out-
"You've given up your marriage, your house, your kids to some extent, most of your friends and family. There is only one thing you have not been willing to give up."
Does he even realize that? And why do I have that need to be heard and point it out to him?