Get another attorney - now.
Then -
take what's in this post and send it to the State Bar Association
if he dares to bill you.
Or even if he doesn't.
The 'helping the other case' thing bothers me -=
does he have a conflict of interest or something?
Yup.
Get out
Get nother
but more =-
don't let this guy 'get away'
with it.
because he'll just do it again
to another woman.