Just a quick note, I'm so proud of you for getting off the merry go round! And well done not bothering to read the email too, let that crazy kook think what she wants, you know your motives for leaving are pure and your chances for getting it done better than great. Keep saving that stuff!
On a side note, isn't it funny the response we get from them when we apologize for our behavior? You had mentioned in your first post about it, I remember how it felt the first time I did it with my ex, I felt so much better, because no matter what he thought, my side of the street was now clean. It's a great feeling.