Originally Posted by
stacylove XXXXXXX (whoa you have a lot of X's),
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, and your canceled wedding. If you two were in love, you owe it to him to tell him about the no contact. I think it would be mean to just stop answering, just be honest with him and tell him
goodbye for now, either by phone or email or whatever. You will upset him if you just cut him off without telling him why. Good luck to you
Just wondering if you're offering this advice from the perspective of:
1. A recovering alcoholic with less than 30 days.
2. A recovering co-dependent.
Because that bit about
'goodbye for now' is lousy advice, imo.