similar to your husband, mine is also a picture of perfection. nice and loving father to our kids, a wonderful husband, taking care of all the bills, understanding, and so on. all of this, of course, provided no one rocks his boat and he gets to enjoy his drugs on the side.
That's it.
I wasn't willing to rock the boat for ME...
but when I got pregnant, that little being came into my life and gifted me with seeing that I WAS willing to rock the boat for her/him.
So I did some boat rocking and the ship sank.
Well, boats need to be designed to rock.
If they sink, they weren't meant for sea.
Hugs,
p