It's been suggested to me in the past that I should try an al anon meeting, but with my husband working late and only a few meetings are available (rural), I won't take our son. I'm sure I could figure out a way to make it work, but I haven't yet. You all have been amazing and I sure have a lot to chew on.
Blessings to each of you and thanks again for all of your kind and thought provoking words.