Keep It Simple
Tuff, I commend you for seeking help for yourself at Al-Anon and suggest one on one therapy as well. You need to take care of you. I am a recovering alcoholic with a little over 3 years of sobriety and wish my wife would try Al-Anon but she refuses and I have taken her to open meetings. Your husband is in early recovery and he is a work in progress and I hope he is availing himself of a sponsor and even individual therapy as well as he is just getting to know himself and just because he is dry does not mean he is thinking with a sober mind yet. All you can do is take it a day at a time and continue your recovery. We all know its a family disease.