You will be lonely. Not only is that person gone, but now all the time spent arguing, cleaning up after them and tip-toeing around them is free time! When I finally got my XAH out of the house it felt so empty and quiet! It's been a few months now and I have adjusted to my new life. I enjoy the peace. I work out in my living room, which I could never do before cuz god forbid I interrupt his TV watching. He will be fine. You will be great! I can't imagine ever going back to that madness. I am slowly becoming me again, and you will too. But give it time, it's kind of like grieving after a death. It's expected and, I think, important to do so. Then, pick yourself up and re-claim yourself! I think it's fantastic, and you will too, I promise!
M