My XABF did everything he knew how in order to try and keep me chained to his side.
Telling me he was dying, blaming everything on me, saying there was an emergency and he had to see me.
None of it was true. None of it.
You need to do what you need to do in order to get your own space, your own life, your own personal haven separate from the insanity. You deserve all of this.
I would agree with Laurie's list. Al-Anon, no contact, and therapy if you like.
You deserve to re-discover yourself.
